How to Kiss a Girl

Bahut sundar ho tum,Tumharii aankhen mujhe pagal banaatee hain,mujhe atumko hansate hue dekhana pasand hai.

How to Kiss

To aapako ant mein "dekho" mil gaya aur aap us hatyaara chumban ke lie aage badh rahe hain jab yah aapake saamane aata hai ki aapako madad kee aavashyakata hai aur tez. yadi aap sabakuchh seekhane ke lie gem hain, to aapako kisake baare mein jaanane kee jaroorat hai, kis, kab, kahaan, kyon aur kaise chumban karen, aap sahee jagah par aa gae hain. pakar oopar aur chalo kuchh maza hai!

Part-1

1.

Drop sanket jo aap ruchi rakhate hain. aap kuchh sookshm signal daal sakate hain ki aap chumban ke lie sahee tareeke se baahar aane aur kahane ke bina chilla rahe hain. yahaan romaantik roop se sanvaad karane ka tareeka bataaya gaya hai:

• doosare vyakti ke honth par pakade hue (sankshep mein) pakade jao.
• apane honth pars mat karo. unhen dheere-dheere vibhaajit rakhen - itana nahin ki aap kholane ke maadhyam se aaraam se saans le sakate hain, lekin paryaapt hai ki aap aasaanee se apane neeche honth kaat sakate hain.
• apana munh aakarshak banao. chaapaloosee honthon ko suchaaroo banaane ke lie chaipastik ya liplos ka prayog karen, aur apanee saans ko takasaalon ya spre ke saath taaja rakhen. gam se bachen, agar aapako ek chumban ke lie andar jaata hai to aapako ajeeb tarah se thookana pad sakata hai.

2.

Chumban baadha toden (vaikalpik). yadi aap bahaadur mahasoos kar rahe hain, haath ya gaal par ek chhote se chumban ke saath paanee ka pareekshan karen. yadi doosara vyakti dilachaspee leta hai, to munh par chumban ke saath aage badhana surakshit hai.

• yadi aap ek ladakee ko chumban de rahe hain: usaka haath lo aur dheere-dheere ise apane munh par uthao. door todane se pahale 2 ya 3 sekand ke lie dheere-dheere apane honth ko apane haath ke peechhe dabaen.
• yadi aap ek ladake ko chumban kar rahe hain: usake gaal par 2- ya 3-sekand chumban lagaen aur lagaen. apane honth ko naram rakhen, aur agar aap parivaar ke sadasy ko chumban de rahe hon to aap jaise pakkee se bachen. yadi aap apane iraadon ko atirikt spasht hona chaahate hain, to apane honth ke hisse ke lie apane honth ke hisse ka lakshy rakhen.

3.

Romaantik taareeph ke saath mood set karen. bade ho jao aur doosare vyakti ko us eemaanadaar taareeph ka bhugataan karen jise aap soch sakate hain. yadi aap ise sahee maanate hain, to doosara vyakti aapako chumban karane ke lie netrtv aur dubala le sakata hai.

• ise ek antarang tareeke se kahen. apanee aavaaj kee maatra aur svar ko thoda kam karen, aur aankhon ko band karen. na keval yah sanvaad karata hai ki is vyakti ke lie aapako gaharee bhaavanaen hain, yah aapako sunane ke kareeb aane ke lie prerit karatee hai.
• ek aakarshak gunavatta par dhyaan kendrit karen. yahaan tak ​​ki yadi aap vaastav mein sochate hain ki aapakee tithi ek adbhut baasketabol khilaadee hai, to ab ise laane ka sabase achchha samay nahin ho sakata hai. isake bajaay, romaantik paartanar ke roop mein apanee tithi ko kaise dekhate hain, is par apanee taareeph ka aadhaar len. in panktiyon ko aajamaen:
• "bahut sundar ho tum."
• "aapakee aankhen mujhe paagal banaatee hain."
• "mujhe aapako hansate hue dekhana pasand hai."
• "main abhee aapake saath rahana bahut bhaagyashaalee hoon."

4.

Seedhe chumban maangane par vichaar karen. yadi sab kuchh viphal ho jaata hai, to todane ke lie jao aur apane iraadon ko bataen. yadi aapakee tithi kisee bhee sanket par nahin uthaee gaee hai aur aap honth ko lok karane ke lie mar rahe hain, to aap bhee seedha ho sakate hain aur poochh sakate hain ki kya aap use choom sakate hain ya nahin. chinta na karen, yadyapi - aap abhee bhee romaantik aur aakarshak hone ke dauraan pratyaksh ho sakate hain. yadi aap shabdon ke lie haani mein hain to in vaakyaanshon ko aajamaen:

• "mujhe abhee aapako choomane se jyaada kuchh nahin chaahie."
• "mujhe khed hai ki yah bahut aage hai, lekin main vaastav mein aapako choomana chaahata hoon."
• "main tumhen itanee choomana chaahata hoon ki yah sirph mujhe maarane ke baare mein hai."

5.

Chumban ke lie jao. ek baar jab aap aage badhate hain to kisee bhee samay barbaad na karen - apanee aankhen band karen, dubala rahen aur dhundhala karen! agale khand kuchh chumban takaneekon par charcha karenge, saath hee vibhinn chumban ya chumban jaise vibhinn deting sthitiyon mein chumban ko sambhaalane ke tareeke ke baare mein charcha karenge

Part-2

Chumban takaneeken

1.

Apane honth naram rakhen. tens pakar parivaar ke sadasyon ya jin logon ko aap chumban ke lie baadhy hain, unake lie hain, lekin apane munh ko thoda sa hissa rakhate hue aur naram khulepan kee bhaavana ko sanchaarit karata hai.

2.

Kuchh mulaayam chumban karo. naram, komal chumban ke saath dheemee gati se shuroo karen aur jeebh aur daant chhod den - abhee ke lie. yadi aapaka saathee grahanasheel lagata hai, to aap phrench chumban mein aage badh sakate hain.

• apane honth ko smaik karane se bachane ka prayaas karen. shor vichalit ho sakata hai, aur is pal mein apane visarjan tod sakata hai. yadi aap khud ko smaiking karate hain, dheeme ho jaate hain aur apane honthon ko thoda aur adhik bhaagate hain.
• pahale prakaash raho. apane honth ko apanee tithi ke munh se todane se bachen - abhee ke lie. dheere-dheere aur dheere-dheere chumban doosare vyakti ko rokane kee sambhaavana deta hai agar yah asahaj hai, saath hee aapako apanee ruchi ko maapane kee ijaajat deta hai.

3.

Laar ke ek prabandhaneey star par raho. slobarbee pille aakhiree cheej hain jinhen aap apanee taareekh ko sochate samay sochate hain. kabhee-kabhee atirikt laar nigalakar is bhaagy se bachen. yadi aap dekhate hain ki aapake honth thoda geele hain, to door kheenchen aur samajhadaaree se unhen apane munh mein atirikt thook laane ke lie pars karen.

4.

Honth "taala". yadi aapake praarambhik chumban achchhee tarah se chale gae hain, to honth lok aazamaen, jisase nikat chumban ho sakate hain (aur phrench chumban ke lie ek achchha pravesh dvaar hai). asal mein, aap apane honth "dher" karenge taaki (udaaharan ke lie) aisa lagata hai:

• aapaka nichala honth
• aapake saathee ke nichale honth
• aapaka ooparee honth
• aapake saathee ke ooparee honth
• sabase pahale, apane saathee ke nichale honth ko apane beech rakhana sabase surakshit shart hai. adhikaansh logon mein bade honth hote hain, jisase unhen aapake honthon se dheere-dheere pakadana aasaan ho jaata hai.

5.

Saans lene ke lie sunishchit karen. aadarsh roop mein, aap chumban karate samay apanee naak ke maadhyam se dheere-dheere saans lene mein saksham honge. yadi yah sambhav nahin hai, haalaanki, saans lene ke lie ek sekand ke lie tod den.

• saans se baahar hone ya doosare ke lie brek lene kee aavashyakata ke baare mein aatm-jaagarook mahasoos na karen. saans lene mein kathinaee ek sanket hai ki aap ghabaraahat aur utsaahit hain, jo aapake saathee ko shaayad chaapaloosee mil jaegee.

6.

Apane haathon ka prayog karen. do haathon faittuchchini noodals kee tarah apane haathon par lataka mat dena - unhen achchhe upayog ke lie daal diya!

• apane saathee ke kandhon par ya usake kamar ke chaaron or apane haathon ko halke dhang se rakhen. (pashchimee sanskrti mein, ladakiyaan aamataur par ladakon ke kandhon par apana haath daalatee hain jabaki vah apane kamar ke chaaron or apane haath rakhatee hai.)
• apane saathee ko kareeb kheenchakar antarangata ko ek paayadaan par le jaen.
• apane haathon ko usake chehare ke kinaaron par rakho, apane angoothe ka prayog karake gaal kee chapet mein bharen, ya ek haath apane thodee ke neeche rakho aur use oopar kee or jhukaen.
• ek aur gambheerata se kaamuk kadam yah hai ki donon haathon ko apane saathee ke sir ke peechhe rakhen aur unhen apane baalon mein dheere-dheere kheenchen.

7.

Jeebh ka prayog kar pareekshan karen. ek baar jab aap donon ke beech apane saathee ke nichale honth ke saath honth taalaab mein hon, to halke se apanee jeebh kee nok ko chalaen. yadi aap ise dheere-dheere le ja sakate hain, to bhee behatar.

• dekhen ki aapaka saathee kaise pratikriya karata hai. agar vah nazadeek dabaata hai ya ishaara deta hai, to aap chumban kee teevrata ko badhaane ke lie shaayad spasht hain. yadi aapakee tithi door ho jaatee hai, to shaayad ab ke lie jeebh vaapas kheenchana aur honth-keval chumban ke saath rahana sabase achchha hai.

8.

Phrench chumban (vaikalpik) ka prayaas karen. chumban ke dauraan apanee jeebh ka upayog karana, pashchimee sanskrti mein, phraanseesee chumban ke roop mein jaana jaata hai. phrench ko kredit kyon milata hai? kaun jaane! shuroo karane ka tareeka yahaan diya gaya hai:

• apanee jeebh ko apane saathee ke nichale honth ke andar sveep karen. pahale dheere-dheere aur halke dhang se aage badhane kee koshish karen, keval badhane kee gati aur dabaav keval tabhee hota hai jab aapaka saathee achchhee pratikriya de.
• apanee jeebh kee nok ko apane saathee ke munh ke andar slaid karen aur dheere-dheere use apanee jeebh kee nok ke khilaaph le jaen. prakaash, daarting gati ka prayog karen aur apanee jeebh ko aage badhen - ise apane saathee ke munh mein seedhe baithane den, aakarshak nahin hai aur chumban ke lie ek tvarit ant laega.
• yadi aapaka saathee uttaradaayee lagata hai to gahan aur kathin strok ka prayaas karen.

9.

Sab mila do. gahan jeebh gatividhi hamesha ke lie jaane ke lie baadhy mahasoos mat karo. vaikalpik naram aur kathin, dheemee aur tej, gaharee aur uthala. aap kuchh hee minaton ke lie keval apane honth ka upayog karane ke lie vaapas ja sakate hain.

• aapakee takaneek ko badalane se aapake saathee ko bhavishy mein aane vaalee bhavishyavaanee karane mein saksham hone se rok diya jaega. aashchary aur sahajata kee is bhaavana ko banae rakhane se aapake chumban baalon se bachane mein madad karate hain.

10.

Dheere-dheere apane saathee ke honth (vaikalpik) ko jhukaen. daant chumban ka ek aavashyak tatv nahin hai, lekin aapake saathee ke honth par charaee unhen ek aur apratyaashit tatv pesh kar sakata hai. yahaan kuchh tvarit pointars die gae hain:

• dabaav jitana sambhav ho utana prakaash rakhen. yaad rakhen ki aap kaatane ka lakshy nahin kar rahe hain.
• dheere dheere chalo. phir, apanee gati komal rakhane se aapake saathee ke honth par galatee se chapet mein madad milegee.
• jab aapake honth band ho jaate hain, to apane daanton ko apane saathee ke nichale honth par rakhen aur dheere-dheere vaapas kheenchen jab tak aapake daant lagabhag honth ke ant mein na hon. ek pal ke lie ruken, phir saamaany roop se chumban phir se shuroo karen.
• bitar ko bahut jyaada mat todo. ve ek praasangik park hona chaahie, mukhy aakarshan nahin.
• asveekrti ke lie taiyaar rahen. har koee apane chumban ke saath daanton kee taraph pasand nahin karata hai. yadi aapaka saathee achchhee tarah se pratikriya nahin deta hai, to bahut naaraaj na hone ka prayaas karen - yah sambhavatah vyaktigat svaad ka maamala hai, na ki aapakee takaneek mein chook.

Part-3

Aapaka pahala chumban rakhana

1.

Ek bharosemand saathee lene kee koshish karo. jis par aap bharosa karate hain use dhundhala karane se aapake pahale chumban kee chinta bahut kam ho sakatee hai. agar aapako pata tha ki aap kisee ko apana pahala chumban de rahe the to aap dheeraj aur samajhane kee koshish karenge, isalie apane saathee kee apeksha karen.

• Dhyaan rakhen ki ek ajeeb pahala chumban sambandh (ya duniya) ka ant nahin hai. asal mein, yah ek saajha anubhav ke maadhyam se antarangata ka nirmaan kar sakate hain. jab tak aap ise hans sakate hain, aap theek ho jaenge.
• Yaad rakhen, har koee apana pahala chumban lekar gujar chuka hai. baadhaen hain ki adhikaansh log isake baare mein adhik ajeeb hain, bhale hee aap ise nahin jaanate hain.

2.

Apana munh taiyaar karo. chupake honthon ko suchaaroo banaane ke lie chaipastik ya liplos ka prayog karen, aur apane daanton aur jeebh ko achchhee tarah se brash karen. yadi aapaka munh thoda baandh mahasoos karata hai, to saans ke takasaalon ya spre ka upayog taaja karane ke lie karen.

Yah jaanakar ki aapaka munh saaph aur aakarshak hai, aapako chumban ke baare mein adhik aatmavishvaas mahasoos karane mein madad kar sakata hai.

• Aisa kaha ja raha hai, haalaanki, aisa mahasoos na karen ki aapako svachchhata par junoon kee aavashyakata hai. adhikaansh munh sirph "svaad" garm hote hain, jab tak ki aapane haal hee mein kuchh tej (pyaaj ya lahasun kee tarah) khaaya hai ya aap subah mein jaag gae hain.

3.

Jaldee mat karo. aap keval ek pahala chumban milata hai! jab tak aap donon ichchha se itane abhibhoot na hon ki aapako abhee chumban karana hai ya duniya khatm ho jaegee, ise baahar nikaalen. aisa hone se pahale chumban ko chidhaane ke lie yah behad romaanchak aur kaamuk ho sakata hai, poore samay aankhon se sampark rakhata hai.

4.

Doosare vyakti ko leed (vaikalpik) le jaane den. yadi aap sahee takaneekon ko jaanane ke baare mein pareshaan hain, to apane saathee ko chumban ke dauraan kya hota hai aarambh karane den. nakal karen ki vah tab tak karata hai jab tak ki aap apanee chaalon ka prayaas karane mein sahaj mahasoos na karen.

5.

Kuchh ganana jokhim le lo. choonki aap chumban ke saath adhik aaraamadaayak ho jaate hain, chumban shuroo karane ya naee takaneekon par kaam karane ke lie netrtv karane ka prayaas karen. yadi aapaka saathee achchhee pratikriya nahin deta hai, to bas ise vyaktigat vareeyata ke roop mein likhen aur kuchh aur koshish karen.

Part-4

Ek tithi ke baad chumban

1.

Kareeb milana. choonki alavida chumban kee sambhaavana hamesha bekan hotee hai-aur yah maan letee hai ki yah aapakee ichchha hai-baad mein jald se jald band hona shuroo karana sabase achchha hai. anyatha, aap khud ko apane alavida kahenge jo aapake beech chakkar jaisa mahasoos karata hai, chumban ke lie bahut spasht aur ajeeb banaata hai.

• Doston, yah tab hota hai jab aap daraavanee aakhiree minat-tarn-end-chumban-on-da-gaal rooteen praapt karate hain, jo vaakyaansh ke lie doosara sthaan hai, "aap mujhe apane bhaee kee yaad dilaate hain," sabase adhik diphleting det samaapt hone ke lie. jaise hee aap apanee tithi kaar, daravaaje, aadi par chalate hain, apanee tithi ke kandhe ya peechhe apane haath (ya ek jaiket) daal den. yah tach baadha ko tod deta hai, dheere-dheere aapakee tithi ko aapake iraadon ko jaanane deta hai, aur aapako ek hee samay mein bahut kareeb khade hone ka bahaana deta hai.

2.

Apanee tithi kee pratikriya dekhen. agar aapakee tithi aapake shareer se door ho jaatee hai ya dooree banaane ke lie gati detee hai, to shubharaatri chumban ko poora karane kee koshish na karen- aur apanee ahankaar ko moorkh mat banao. bas ek badee muskurao, pyaara samay ke lie dhanyavaad, aur apane vyaapaar ke baare mein jao. yah bas ho sakata hai ki aapakee tithi abhee tak chumban ke lie taiyaar nahin hai.

3.

Aankh se sampark banaaye rakhiye. khade hone par aankhon ke sampark karana ek saarvabhaumik roop se sveekrt sanketak hai ki ek post-det chumban hone vaala hai.

• Yadi aankh ka sampark bahut lamba ho jaata hai, to ise aavashyak roop se toden aur pun: sthaapit karen; poochhataachh ke lie apanee taareekh ke vishay mein apanee aankhon ko chaaron or daalane ke lie behatar hai. romaans banae rakhane ke dauraan aankhon ke sampark ko todane ka ek achchha tareeka hai apanee tithi ke honthon par najar daalana
• Apanee ichchhaon ko itanee spasht banaane ke lie ajeeb lag sakata hai, bas yaad rakhen ki aanee tithi ko ek sir-ap dekar, aap chumban ko aur adhik suchaaru roop se aage badhaenge aur baadhaon ko behatar bana denge ki yah ek shaanadaar banaane ke satr mein badal jaega. doosaree taraph aashchary se chumban lagaane kee koshish kar, nateejatan naak aur daant, ek chaunkaane vaalee vaapasee, aur bahut ajeebata ho sakatee hai.

4.

Baatacheet band karo. jab log ghabaraate hain, to ve aksar chumban ke avasaron ko maarane ke baare mein baat karane ke lie kuchh bhee dhoondhakar kshatipoorti karate hain.

• Jabaki aapako baatacheet ko achaanak samaapt karane kee koshish nahin karanee chaahie, jo aapake alavida ke saath khatm hone kee koshish mein aa sakatee hai, aapako apanee tithi ko raimabal karane ke lie protsaahit nahin karana chaahie.
• Apane pratikriyaon ko dostaana lekin kam se kam rakhakar chaapaloosee mar jaen.

5.

Chumban baadha todane par vichaar karen. agar sab theek ho raha hai lekin aap pooree tarah se udae romaantik chumban mein gota lagaane ke lie taiyaar nahin hain, to gale lagaane ke lie dubala ho jao aur gaal par vyakti ko choomo.

• Gaal ke beech mein ek dostaana charakhee chikanaee ke saath ise bhramit mat karo; chumban ko kaan ya munh ke kareeb rakhakar aur apane honth ek doosare ke lie rengane den, ya honth ko chhoone ke saath apane kaan mein kuchh gadabad kar den. yah doosare vyakti ko yah jaanane mein madad karega ki chumban ek plaitonik sandarbh mein nahin hai.

6.

Ise saral rakhen. yadi yah is vyakti ke saath pahala chumban hai- ya, sabase mahatvapoorn baat yah hai ki, pahalee taareekh - ise adhik na karen. apane honthon ko dheere-dheere vibhaajit rakhen aur ya to honth ko dheere-dheere lok karake apane saathee ke honthon par ya seedhe poorv mein chumban den.

• Kathor ya jeebh se chumban karane ke lie pralobhan ka virodh karen, jab tak ki aap is vyakti ka kaaphee samay se peechha nahin kar rahe hon. yah bahut aage prateet ho sakata hai aur bhavishy ke avasar band kar sakata hai.

7.

Apanee tithi ke netrtv ka paalan karen. chumban ke dauraan aapakee tithi kaise pratikriya detee hai aur aage badhatee hai is par dhyaan den. yadi ve kareeb ya adarak jhukate hain, to aap adhik romaantik chumban mein sankraman karane mein saksham ho sakate hain; anyatha, dheere-dheere vaapas kheenchakar chumban samaapt karen, aankhon ke sampark karane aur muskuraate hue apanee aankhen dobaara kholen.

Part-5

Gair romaantik chumban

1.

Apane honth uthao. apane honth pake hue hone se unhen tang aur kuchh had tak band rakha jaata hai, yah darshaata hai ki aap adhik antarangata ke lie apana munh kholane ke ichchhuk nahin hain. jyaadaatar log sakhtee se plaitonik ke roop mein ek pakar padhenge.

• Yah jaanane ke lie ki kya aap apane honth sahee tareeke se utha rahe hain, hava mein choomo. chumban shor kitana joradaar hai? yah aapake honthon ka ek spasht roop se shravy "pop" hona chaahie kyonki aap hava mein choosane ke dauraan unhen bhaag lete hain. romaantik chumban mushkil se is shor ko banaega kyonki aapake honth adhik aaraam se hain.

2.

Apane iraade spasht karen. yadi aap gaal par kisee ko choomana chaahate hain aur kisee ko aapake iraadon ko galat tareeke se paribhaashit karane ka khatara hai, to yah spasht kar len ki aap munh ke lie apane sir ko ghumaane se pahale munh mein nahin ja rahe hain. chumban lagaane kee koshish karen gaal ke beech mein skvaayaralee taaki vah kaan ya munh jaise adhik romaantik kshetron ke lie ghoom raha na ho.

• Yadi aap vaastav mein any vyakti kee tvacha ko chumban mein asahaj hain, to chumban karane kee koshish karen. is baat ko dubala karen ki aapaka gaal doosare vyakti ke gaal ke kinaare chhoo raha hai, aur kuchh tvarit aur shravy pakar ke saath hava ko choomo. atirikt prabhaav ke lie, vaapas kheenchen, kinaare svich karen, aur phir se karen.

3.

Ise sankshipt rakhen. aapake honth doosare vyakti ke gaal ya honth par kitane samay vyateet karate hain, us samay tak seemit hona chaahie jo pichhale charan mein varnit chumban shor ko banaane ke lie jo kuchh bhee leta hai, usase kuchh bhee seemit nahin hona chaahie. yadi aapake honth rukate hain, to yah itana plaitonik nahin lagega.

4.

Sammaan ya pooja se baahar nikalen. doosare vyakti se pahale bo ya ghutane tekana. sammaan mein dekho. chumban ke dauraan is sthiti mein rahen. vyakti ke haath dheere-dheere le lo aur ise apane honthon ke kareeb lao.