How to Change a Girl's Mind in Hindi

"usaka naam, main tumhen pasand karata hoon" or “ I like you”usake doston se poochho. aapaki pasand kee Girl ke dost aamataur par

How to Change a Girl's Mind

Ek Girl  dvaara reject  kiya jaana bade hone ka sirf ek hissa hai. har koyi apanee-apanee opinion  ka hakadaar hai. kabhi-kabhi ladakiyaan jiddi ho sakati hain aur dikhaava kar sakati hain ki ve kisi bhi kaaran se aapako pasand nahin karati hain. kuchh maamalon mein unaka vaastav mein koyi  matalab nahin hai, lekin any sthitiyon mein aapake paas ek aur mauka hai.

Method-1

ek parivartan badalana

1.

usake behavior  ko pehachaano. yadi aap use bahut achchhi tarah se nahin jaanate hain, to aap usaki upasthiti ko asveekrti ke roop mein bhool sakate hain. kuchh logon ke paas kuchh nishchit kvarkee hote hain. yah hamesha matalab nahin hai ki vah dilachaspi nahin hai. agar aap usase baat karate hain, ya agar vah aapaki baaton par hansati hai, to vah muskuraati hai.

• tum par hansane ke saath tumhaare saath hansane ki galati mat karo.

2.

Make eye contact. aankhon ke sampark se yaun tanaav paida karana ek svasth aakarshan paida kar sakata hai. kabhi kisi Girl  ko ghoorana nahin chaahie. yah sirph ek asabhy baat hai. isake bajaay us par kam nazar daalen aur usaki aankhon ko dekhen. ummeed hai ki vah aapakee aankh se sampark karegee aur phir door ho jaegi. ise tab tak jaari rakhen jab tak ki aap donon pichhali baar ki tulana mein lambe samay tak aankh se sampark na rakhen.

3.

vaastavik bane rahen. Girls  ko aise log pasand nahin hain jo kisi aur ka hone ka naatak kar rahe hon. ve tumhaare lie tumhen pasand karenge. yadi aap pahale kisi aur ke hone ka dikhaava kar rahe the, to bas aap svayan banen. yadi aap aaraam karate hain aur any logon ke lie badalane ki koshish karana band kar dete hain, to vah aapako pasand kar sakati hai.

4.

usake doston se poochho. aapaki pasand kee Girl  ke dost aamataur par baat karane mein aasaan hote hain. aakasmik rahen aur us Girl  ke baare mein poochhen jise aap pasand karate hain. kuchh aisa kahen, "kya jesee ka koyi  boyaphrend hai?" ya "jesee ka prakaar" kya hai? ve aapako bataenge ya ve nahin karenge. mahatvapoorn baat yah hai ki ve shaayad Girl  ko bataenge aur jitana ve aapake baare mein baat karenge, aapake mauke utane hee achchhe honge.

5.

lacheele banen. apane aap ko jaaree rakhen, lekin agar aapake paas kuchh vichaar hain jo kathor ho sakate hain, to unhen apane paas rakhen. hamesha kuchh dena aur lena hai, to sunishchit karen ki aap ek jhataka nahin hain. girls ko yah pasand aata hai jab aap dikhaate hain ki aap sard ho sakate hain aur apane aap ka aanand le sakate hain chaahe aap kuchh bhi kar rahe hon.

6.

khilaadi ko pahachaano. kabhi-kabhi ek Girl  ko logon ke dil se khelane mein maza aata hai, aur kabhi-kabhi yah chhedakhaani ki rananeeti hotee hai. haalaanki vah kahatee hai ki vah aapako pasand nahin karatee hai, phir bhee vah chaahatee hai ki aap usaka dhyaan paane ke lie aur adhik prayaas karen. kunjee usake saath behatar dost banane aur ek saath adhik samay bitaane kee hai. aap usake shareer kee bhaasha aur usake dvaara bheje ja rahe vaibs dvaara usake vaastavik iraadon ko jaan paenge.

7.

Be direct. ek baar jab aap is Girl  ke saath thoda sa kareeb ho jaate hain, to aap phir se koshish kar sakate hain. aapako apane aap ko usake dvaara prastut karane ke tareeke ko alag-alag karana hoga. vah pasand nahin kar sakatee hai jo aapane usase pahalee baar kaha tha. agar vah kahatee hai ki nahin ya vaastav mein asahaj lag raha hai, to use majaboor mat karo.

• usake prati eemaanadaar rahen.

Method-2

Getting Out of the Friend Zone

1.

Know her type.. usake saath dost hone ke naate aap use us cheez kee pahunch pradaan karenge jo vah ek ladake ke lie dekh rahee hai. agar aap sochate hain ki jim smith aakarshak hain, to aap unase laaparavaahee se poochh sakate hain, aur phir pata karen ki kyon. any ladakon ke prati usake aakarshan ke baare mein baat karana use aapakee bhaavanaon kee yaad dila sakata hai.

2.

usake achchhe paksh par rahen. yadi usane aapako mitr kshetr mein daal diya hai, to aapake lie ek cheej hai: vah aapake aas-paas hone ka bura nahin maanatee. use pareshaan mat karo aur use ek romantic  taareekh ke lie pareshaan karake. yah samay lagega agar yah bhee sambhav hai.

3.

Recognize flirting.. kabhee-kabhee ek Girl  aise kaary karegee jaise vah aapako mitr kshetr mein rakhatee hai, lekin kabhee-kabhee vah aap mein ruchi rakhatee hai. dost is baat par bade prabhaav daal sakate hain ki vah aapake prati kaisa behavior  karata hai. usake kaaryon, ishaaron, aur sanket jaise muskuraate hue aur hansate hue dekhen jab cheejen us mazedaar nahin hotee hain. dhyaan den yadi vah aapake aasapaas apanee upasthiti ke baare mein chintit hai.

4.

Flirt with her..  This can be tricky because you don't want to appear too attached or engrossed by her. kuchh had tak niraash hokar abhinay karane se usakee dilachaspee badhegee. chanchal tareeke se pyaare ishaaron aur halkee badamaashee ka ek ajeeb santulan banaen.

• Use badmashee  ke saath overboard mat jao anyatha vah bilkul dost nahin banana chaahega.
• vyangyaatmak hone se ek lamba raasta tay kiya ja sakata hai.

5.

Tell her your feelings.. apane aap ko usake lie kholen. kabhee-kabhee aapako vaastav mein khud ko spotalait mein rakhane kee aavashyakata hotee hai. ise laaparavaahee se aur usake chehare par kahane kee koshish karen.  kuchh is tarah ka prayaas karen:-------

• "mujhe pata hai ki ham kuchh samay ke lie dost hain, lekin mainne aapake lie bhaavanaon ko vikasit karana shuroo kar diya hai."
• "usaka naam, main tumhen pasand karata hoon" or  “ I like you”

6.

unase poochhen. vah shaayad aapako nahin bataegee ki vah aapako pasand karatee hai. ek baar jab aapakee bhaavanaon ka beej usake dimaag mein lagaaya gaya hai, to use aamantrit karen. dekhen ki kya vah film mein jaana chaahatee hai, laser tag khelana chaahatee hai ya weekend  mein aapake saath rahatee hai. isase vah soch paegee ki vah aapako kaise dekhatee hai. vah tay karegee ki yah taareekh hai ya nahin. Decision hamesha usaka hai.

• aapako pata hona chaahie ki vah kya karana pasand karatee hai. kuchh aisa karen jahaan aap donon ko dheela chhod saken aur maze kar saken.

Method-3

Talking to a Stranger

1.

is Girl  ko gaur se dekhie Don't stalk her to find out what she is doing. Casually look for clues when she is nearby.. agar aap use dekhate hain to vah ek kitaab padh rahee hai. gaur keejie ki usane kya pahana hai. kya use ek udaatt tee-shart pahanana pasand hai?

• use social media  par dekhie. har koyi  social media  sites  par ek doosare ko dekhta hai, islie aapako ise karane ke lie doshee mahasoos karane kee aavashyakata nahin hai. Look at her interests!

2.

Take on a common interest.. yadi aap is interest  mein ruchi rakhate hain to hee aisa karen. Don't start wearing a Shania Twain t-shirt if you don't like her music. ek kitaab uthao jo vah padh rahee hai. aap vaastav mein saajha connection chaahate hain. bahaana aapako kaheen bhee nahin milega.

3.

Say something in passing.. ek mauka hai ki usane aapako pahale kabhee nahin dekha tha, aur ek mauka nahin lena chaahata tha. jab bhee aap use paas karen to use hello kahana shuroo karen. dayaaluta ke chhote ishaare ek lamba raasta tay kar sakate hain. ummeed hai ki vah aapako javaab degee ya muskuraegee.

• aap usase poochh sakate hain "What time it is ?"
• "that's a pretty dress," kehkar ya usake saath vah kya pehen rahee hai, yah kehakar usake pahanaave kee tareef  karen.

4.

Be funny . is Girl  ke lie ek achchha tareeka yah hai ki aap ek achchhee pakad ko pahachaanen ki vah mazedaar ho. kah rahe hain ki knock knock  kaam nahin kar sakatee hai. paas hone par apane praakrtik haasy ka pradarshan karen. aapattijanak na hon aur anuchit chutakule sunaen. vah isase aahat ya krodhit ho sakata hai.

5.

Hold a conversation.. kisee cheez ke baare mein svaabhaavik baatacheet karane kee koshish karen. yah kathin ho sakata hai kyonki aap aakasmik dikhane kee koshish kar rahe hain jab aap aakasmik mahasoos nahin kar sakate hain. ek achchhe avasar kee prateeksha karen jaise lipht ka intajaar karana ya bas ka intajaar karana. kisee vichaar ko saajha karane ke lie ye achchhee jagahen hain.

• aap use dekhane ke lie shooting kar rahe hain aur vaastav mein aapase baat kar rahe hain.
• ek aasaan vishay par baat karen jaise mausam ya haal hee mein celebrating kee harakaton ke baare mein.

6.

Be friendly to her friends. aap usake doston se sampark karane aur is Girl  ke baare mein savaal poochhane kee koshish kar sakate hain. yahaan tak ki agar aap sirf chhote ishaare karate hain, to ve soch sakate hain ki yah meetha hai aur aapako jo Girl  pasand hai, use bataen. aap vaastav mein usake doston ke samooh ko notis karana chaahate hain aur sochate hain ki aap achchhe hain. jab aapake paas aapake baare mein ghoomane kee baatacheet hogee, to aapake paas ek behatar shot hoga.

7.

Ask her out again. sunishchit karen ki same line approach  ka upayog na karen jaisa aapane pahale kiya tha. aap use band gaard ko pakadana chaahate hain, lekin use prabhaavit bhee karate hain. aisa karate hue usakee taareeph karane kee koshish karen.

8.

usake phaisale ka sammaan karen. vah apane phaisalon kee hakadaar hai aur aapako usaka sammaan karana chaahie. koyi  bhee vyakti kisee ko pasand nahin karata hai jo shikaayat karata hai ki unhen vah nahin milata jo ve chaahate hain.