How to Not Fall in Love With Someone- Pyar Mein Mat Padana

person se apanee dooree rakhen. apanee feelings ko, apanee dooree ko person se door rakhen taaki aap, saiton par person kee gatividhi ko.

How to Not Fall in Love With Someone- Pyar Mein Mat Padana 

kisi ke saath mohabbat mein girana jabaradast ho sakata hai. kisi ke saath mohabbat mein padana seekhana seekhana drdhata aur drdhata leta hai, khaasakar jab aap apanee feelings ko niyantrit karane mein asamarth mahasoos karate hain. shaayad aap kisi aise person  ke saath mohabbat mein padane ka virodh karane kee koshish kar rahe hain jisamen aap hain ya aap saamaany roop se mohabbat ko spasht karane kee koshish kar rahe hain. aap us person  se bachane kee koshish kar sakate hain jise aap aakarshit kar rahe hain aur person  se bhaavanaatmak roop se band kar rahe hain taaki aapakee bhaavanaen aapake lie behatar na hon. aap jis person  ke lie gir rahe hain usase khud ko door karane ke tareeke ke roop mein apanee khud kee jarooraton aur hiton par bhee dhyaan kendrit kar sakate hain.

Step-1

us person  se bachen jise aap aakarshit kar rahe hain -  mohabbatein (love)

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person  se apanee dooree rakhen. apanee feelings ko sabase achchha paane se bachane ka ek tareeka yah hai ki jitana sambhav ho sake person  se surakshit dooree banae rakhen. isaka matalab ho sakata hai ki saamaajik paristhitiyon mein person  se door rahana, jaise doston ya sahakarmiyon ke saath sabhaen. ya jab aap ek hee sthaan saajha kar rahe hon, jaise skool ya kaam par aap us person  se bach sakate hain. apanee dooree ko person  se door rakhen taaki aap unake saath baatacheet karane ke lie lubhaane vaale na hon, kyonki isase unake lie aapakee feelings ka gaharaee ho sakata hai.

• udaaharan ke lie, aap usee meeting ya sabha mein person  ke roop mein jaane se bachane ka prayaas kar sakate hain, khaasakar yadi aap jaanate hain ki ve vahaan honge. aap us person  ko dekhane se chookane kee yojana bana sakate hain taaki aapako unake kareeb na ho.
• aap soshal meediya par person  ko jodane se bhee bach sakate hain taaki aap unakee profile ya unakee gatividhi ko dekhane ke lie lubhaane vaale na hon. is tarah, aap phesabuk, instaagraam, ya tambalar jaisee saiton par person  kee gatividhi ko dekhane mein choosane mein saksham nahin ho sakate hain.

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jab aap person  ke aas-paas hon to apane lie spasht seemaen sthaapit karen. yadi aap person  ke aas-paas hone ka ant karate hain, to aapako spasht seemaen sthaapit karanee chaahie taaki aap apanee feelings ko khatm na karen. shaayad aap apane aas-paas hone par person  ke kareeb chhoone, chhedachhaad karane ya baithane se bachen. aap band shareer kee bhaasha ke saath unase ek uchit dooree par khade ho sakate hain taaki aap person  ke anukool ya svaagat na karen. yah unhen sanket de sakata hai ki aap unamen romaantik roop se roochi nahin rakhate hain.   

• udaaharan ke lie, aap apanee baahon ko apanee chhaatee par paar karake aur jab aap unase baat karate hain to person  ke saath aankhon se sampark se bachakar person  ke aas-paas band shareer kee bhaasha ko banae rakh sakate hain.

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person  se romaantik ishaare ya upahaar sveekaar na karen. person  aapako apane sneh dikhaane ke lie upahaar de sakata hai ya ve aapake prati dayaalu sanket de sakate hain. is vyavahaar ko sveekaar ya protsaahit karane se bachen. person  se upahaar ya dayaalu sanketon ko sveekaar karane se unhen aage badhaane ke lie protsaahit kiya ja sakata hai, jo aap nahin chaahate hain ki aap unase bachane kee koshish kar rahe hain.

• udaaharan ke lie, aap vinamrata se kah sakate hain, "koee dhanyavaad nahin" aur upahaar dene se ve aapako dene ka prayaas karate hain. ya aap kah sakate hain, "nahin, main ise svayan kar sakata hoon" ya "nahin, main isaka khyaal rakhoonga" agar ve aapake lie kuchh achchha karane kee koshish karate hain.

Step-2

person  se bhaavanaatmak roop se band karana- dil

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person  ke nakaaraatmak gunon kee soochee banaen. person  se bhaavanaatmak roop se band karana ek aur tareeka ho sakata hai jisase aap unake lie girane se bach sakate hain. apanee feelings ko niyantrit karane ka prayaas karen taaki aap person  ke chaaron or abhibhoot ya niyantran se na mahasoos na karen. person  ke nakaaraatmak gunon kee ek soochee banaen. unhen padhen aur in nakaaraatmak gunon ke kaaran person  se khud ko niraash ya aksham mahasoos karen. yah aapako person  ke saath mohabbat mein girane se bachane mein madad kar sakata hai.   

• honest rahen aur us person  ke gunon ke baare mein sochen jo pareshaan ho sakata hai ya koee mudda ho sakata hai yadi aap unake saath rishte mein the. udaaharan ke lie, aap us person  ke baare mein likh sakate hain: "bahut kairiyar kendrit, shaant aur antardrshti, ek bade samooh mein baat karana mushkil hai."

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nirdhaarit karen ki aap aur person  asangat kyon hain. aapako yah bhee sochana chaahie ki aap aur person  upayukt saathee kyon nahin hain. aap unake nakaaraatmak gunon kee ek soochee bana sakate hain aur phir likh sakate hain ki in nakaaraatmak gunon ka matalab kyon hai aur person  ek saath rahane ka matalab nahin hai. aap vishisht udaaharan bhee likh sakate hain jahaan aap aur person  achchhee tarah se jaal ya jaiv lagate nahin the. aapakee asangatata par dhyaan kendrit karane se aap person  se bhaavanaatmak roop se band ho sakate hain aur unhen kisi mitr se jyaada kuchh nahin dekh sakate hain.

• udaaharan ke lie, aap likh sakate hain: "ham asangat hain kyonki ve kariyar kendrit hain aur main yaatra karana pasand karoonga" ya "ham kaam nahin karenge kyonki ve ek hee sthaan par basane ka iraada rakhate hain aur main aksar ghoomane kee yojana bana raha hoon."

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apane rishte ke anukool pahaluon par dhyaan kendrit karen. yadi aap pahale se hee person  ke saath dostaana sharton par hain, to aap kisi bhee romaantik rishte par unake saath apanee dostee par dhyaan kendrit karane ka prayaas kar sakate hain. shaayad aap aur person  dost ke saath milakar milate hain. khud ko yaad dilaen ki romaantik roop se person  ka peechha karane se feelings ko nukasaan pahuncha sakata hai aur aapakee dostee barbaad ho sakatee hai. isake baad aap tark de sakate hain ki aap romaans ke bajaay person  ke saath dostee banae rakhane se behatar hain.

• udaaharan ke lie, aap baith sakate hain aur doston ke saath apane sabhee majedaar samay likh sakate hain. phir, aap is baat par vichaar kar sakate hain ki kya romaans ko aage badhaane ke lie person  ke saath aapake saarthak, poorn sambandhon ko khatare mein daalana uchit hai.

Step-3

apanee khud kee jarooraton aur byaaj par dhyaan kendrit karana-badmasti

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ek shauk ya gatividhi ke saath khud ko vichalit karen. aap kisi ke lie apanee khud kee jarooraton aur hiton ke bajaay apane samay, ya unake vichaaron ko samarpit karake kisi ke lie girane se bach sakate hain. apanee pasand ko ek shauk mein apanee oorja daalane se apane romaantik utsavon se khud ko vichalit karen. ya aisee gatividhi len jo sabhee upabhog karegee aur aapako kisi ke lie apanee romaantik feelings par dhyaan kendrit karane ke lie thoda samay chhod degee.

• udaaharan ke lie, shaayad aap apanee oorja ko penting, lekhan, sangeet bajaane, ya gaayan jaise shauk mein daal den. aap apana samay bharane ke lie skool kee tarah ek gatividhi bhee le sakate hain ya skool mein ek teem mein shaamil ho sakate hain.

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doston aur priyajanon mein vishvaas karo. yadyapi aap apanee romaantik feelings ko apane aap mein rakhane ke lie prerit ho sakate hain, aap apanee feelings ke baare mein un logon se baat karane ka prayaas kar sakate hain. kisi ke saath mohabbat mein padane se bachane ke tareeke ke baare mein kareebee doston ko bataen. apanee vivaadit feelings ke baare mein ek kareebee parivaar ke sadasy se baat karen. aksar, kisi aise person  se baat karate hain jo aapako sun sake ki aap kaisa mahasoos kar rahe hain, jisase aap kam akele mahasoos kar sakate hain aur bhramit ho sakate hain.

• aap kisi mitr ya parivaar ke sadasy se apanee sthiti par kuchh pariprekshy praapt karane mein bhee saksham ho sakate hain. ve person  ke saath mohabbat mein padane se bachane ke tareeke par salaah ya sujhaav bhee de sakate hain.
• udaaharan ke lie, aap ek dost se kah sakate hain, "mujhe kisi ke lie bhaavanaen hain lekin main unake lie girana nahin chaahata hoon. main kya karoon? "ya aap parivaar ke sadasy se kah sakate hain," mujhe lagata hai ki main kisi ke saath mohabbat mein pad raha hoon lekin mujhe nahin lagata ki yah ek achchha vichaar hai. kya aapako salaah hai ki mujhe kya karana chaahie? "

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apanee feelings ke baare mein person  se baat karane par vichaar karen. yadi person  ke lie aapakee romaantik bhaavanaen bhaaree aur nirvivaad roop se hain, to aap unhen yah bataane par vichaar karana chaahenge ki aap kaisa mahasoos karate hain. yadyapi vaartaalaap ajeeb ho sakata hai, aapakee feelings ke baare mein honest hone aur person  ko bataakar aap behatar mahasoos kar sakate hain. yah sambhaavana ke daravaaje ko bhee khol sakata hai ki person  aapake baare mein usee tarah mahasoos kar sakata hai.

• yadi aap apanee feelings ke baare mein us person  se baat karane ka nirnay lete hain, to aapako unase poochhana chaahie ki kya aap donon mein se keval person gat roop se aur nijee taur par baat karate hain. phir aap unhen bata sakate hain, "mujhe lagata hai ki main aapake lie romaantik feelings ka vikaas kar raha hoon. mainne in feelings se inkaar karane kee koshish kee hai, lekin mujhe lagata hai ki main kaisa mahasoos kar raha hoon, isake baare mein honest hona behatar ho sakata hai. "