How to Talk to a Girl at School (Boys) in Hindi

jab aap "hello" kahate hain, to usaka naam upayog na karen. udaaharan ke lie, use "hey baby" ya "hi janu " jaisee baaten kahane se bachen. vah soch sakatee hai ki ye comments ajeeb ya aapattijanak hain.

How to Talk to a Girl at School (Boys)

yadi aap middle ya High school  mein hain, to girl  se baat karane ka vichaar aapako pareshaan ya chintit kar sakata hai. haalaanki, hatotsaahit nahin kiya jaega! sahee drshtikon ke saath, aap ladakiyon ke saath achchhee baatacheet kar sakate hain aur shaayad unake saath dostee ya sambandh bhee vikasit kar sakate hain.

Part-1

Starting Off Small

1.

shaant raho. sthiti ko palatane kee koshish na karen. yadyapi aap is girl  se bahut baat karana chaahate hain, lekin yaad rakhen ki vah bilkul sahee nahin hai aur aap kee tarah ghabara sakatee hai. ladakiyon kee bhaavanaen aur bhaavanaen aapake jaise hee hotee hain aur ho sakata hai ki aap bhee unase sampark karane ka sahee tareeka soch rahee hon. ya vah pahala kadam rakhane ke lie aapaka intajaar kar rahee hogee!

• usase baat karane se pahale gehree saans len. gehree saansen aapako shaant karane mein madad karatee hain.

2.

muskurao. jab aap use dekhen, to use ek pyaaree see muskaan dekar namaskaar karen. muskaan mitrata aur warmth  ka sanket detee hai. ho sakata hai ki aap usase pahale kabhee muskurae nahin, isalie use is baat ka andaaja nahin hoga ki aap usase baat karana chaahate hain. us par muskuraate hue usake dimaag mein ek beej boega ki aapakee ruchi kuchh star kee hai. jab aap vaastav mein usase baat karate hain, to use guard ke roop mein nahin pakada jaega.

3.

use "namaste" ke saath namaskaar karen. yadi aap use subah mein dekhate hain ya use kaksha mein jaane ke lie jaate hain, to use "namaste" bataen, isase sambhavatah aapake baare mein adhik jaanane aur aapase baat karane ke lie usakee ruchi jaagrt hone lagegee. yah bhee gaarantee dega ki vah aapako notis karatee hai.

• jab tak aapane usase pahale baat nahin kee hai, haalaanki, jab aap "hello" kahate hain, to usaka naam upayog na karen. yadi vah usaka naam jaanatee hai, to use yah daraavana lag sakata hai, lekin vah aapako ya aapake baare mein nahin jaanatee hai, khaasakar yadi aap kisee bade ke paas jaate hain. school . usake baare mein koee bhee jaanakaaree na dekhen, kyonki yah usake samaan vyavahaar ke roop mein saamane aa sakata hai.

4.

madad maango. usake saath chhotee baatacheet shuroo karane ka ek tareeka hai ki aap usase ek chhota sa ehasaan maangen. yah gaarantee dene ka ek aur tareeka hai ki vah aapako notis kare. udaaharan ke lie, aap usase kuchh poochh sakate hain jaise "kya aap mere lie ek cup pakad sakate hain?"

• aap kuchh aisa bhee poochh sakate hain jaise "kya aap mujhe ek pencil udhaar  de sakate hain?" yadi aapake paas usake saath ek varg hai, to bas yah sunishchit kar len ki aap pencil vaapas de den.

5.

questions  poochhen. chhotee baatacheet shuroo karane ka ek aur shaanadaar tareeka yah hai ki aap usase chhote savaal poochhen. vah aapakee madad karane mein saksham hone ke avasar kee saraahana karegee yadi aap savaal poochhate hain ki " what page did the teacher say we should turn to?" ya "aaj raat ke lie hamaara Homework kya hai?"

• yadi aap bhaagyashaalee hain, to jab vah questions  poochhega, tab vah aap par bharosa karana shuroo kar sakata hai aur phir aap baatacheet ko chingaaree laga sakate hain.

6.

ek chhota sa bayaan den. aap usake saath chhote bayaan dekar bhee baatacheet shuroo kar sakate hain, jisake lie jarooree nahin ki use pratikriya kee aavashyakata ho. "vaah, aaj ka din achchha hai" ya "yah dopahar ka bhojan bahut achchha hai" jaisee baaten kahana, use bina kisee dar ke bolane ka bahut achchha tareeka hai, kyonki isake lie use pratikriya dene kee aavashyakata nahin hai. haalaanki, agar vah dilachaspee rakhatee hai, to vah aapase javaab degee, isalie vahaan se baatacheet jaaree rakhen.

Part-2

ek prabhaavee drshtikon ka Approach

1.

sarvottam lago. ek girl  ko prabhaavit karane ka ek tareeka jise aapane abhee tak nahin bola hai vah hamesha shaanadaar dikhana hai. subah kuchh minat pahale uthen aur taiyaar hone mein thoda atirikt samay len. yadi aap niyamit roop se sundar aur saaph-suthare kate hue vidyaalay mein aate hain, to ek girl  ko aap par dhyaan dene kee sambhaavana hai

• raat se pahale apane aautaphit ko chunen aur ise aayaran karen taaki aapake kapade saaph dikhen.
• apanee svachchhata banae rakhen. niyamit roop se snaan karen aur durgandh door karen. apane daanton ko brush karen aur floss karen.
• lotion par rakhen aur chapstik pahanen.
• ek tej kesh vinyaas banae rakhane ke lie niyamit roop se baal kataane praapt karen.
• yadi aapake baal lambe hain, to ise niyamit roop se dhoen aur ise saaph rakhane ke lie kanghee karen.
• kolon pahanen, lekin ise zyaada na karen. jyaadaatar ladakiyon ko maja aata hai jab ladakon ko achchhee mahak aatee hai.

2.

use sahaj banaane kee koshish karen. usake prati bahut sammaan rakhen aur aage kee comments  karane se bachen. kaee ladakiyon ko sadakon par ya social media  par aksar anuchit comments  karate hue unase sampark karana padata hai. har tarah ke logon mein se ek hone se bachane kee pooree koshish karen. ek girl  aapase baat karane kee sambhaavana nahin hai agar vah asahaj mahasoos karatee hai ya yadi use lagata hai ki aap keval use shaareerik roop se chaahate hain.

• udaaharan ke lie, use "hey baby" ya "hi janu " jaisee baaten kahane se bachen. vah soch sakatee hai ki ye comments ajeeb ya aapattijanak hain.
• Avoid using cheesy pickup lines or making comments about her body

3.

apanee sakaaraatmak visheshataon par dhyaan den. haalaanki yah girl  adbhut ho sakatee hai, aapako yaad rakhana chaahie ki vah shaayad logon se judana aur dostee karana bhee chaah rahee hai. isase pahale ki aap usase sampark karen, apane baare mein sabhee achchhe pahaluon ke baare mein sochane ke lie kuchh samay nikaalen. yadi aap ek vaphaadaar dost ya ek dayaalu vyakti hain, to girl  se un gunon ko dikhaen jab aap usase baat karate hain, bina ahankaaree aur deeng maarate hue.

4.

apane aap par aasaan jao. aatmavishvaas anubhav se aata hai, aap ise nakalee nahin kar sakate hain ya yadi aap aisa karate hain, to aap keval itane lambe samay ke lie nakalee ho sakate hain. apane aur apane baare mein eemaanadaar rahen.

• aap shaayad kuchh had tak ghabaraahat mahasoos karane vaale hain. sveekaar karen!
• yaad rakhen ki vah sirph ek any vyakti hai, use ek kurasee par na rakhen ya usake paas aane par koee ummeed na rakhen. bas use vaastav mein dilachaspee hai ki use kya kahana hai aur baatacheet ko yathaasambhav svaabhaavik roop se prakat karane den.
• kuchh tareeke jinase aap aatmavishvaas paida kar sakate hain, seedhe khade hona aur girl  ke saath aankh ka sampark banae rakhana hai.

5.

mukhar hokar bolo. jab aap use approach karate hain, to apane shabdon ko lekar hakalaate nahin hain, bhale hee aap narvas hon. shaanti se, nishchint hokar aur bayaana vyavahaar ke saath bolen. jyaadaatar ladakiyon ko aise ladake pasand aate hain, jo unake bolane par aashvast hon aur unake saath baatacheet karana aasaan ho.

• aap kee tulana mein saamaany roop se thoda jor se bolen yadi aapase kaha jae ki aap mrdubhaashee soft spoken hain.
• ya to use overtalk na karen. aatmavishvaas sabase zor se ya sabase adhik bolane ke baare mein nahin hai. yah sabase achchha ho sakata hai ki use zyaadaatar baat karane den. use khud ke baare mein baat karane ke lie khule questions on kee ek soochee ke saath aane kee koshish karen. ye aise savaal hain jinaka koee aasaan javaab nahin hai. ve vistaar ko aamantrit karate hain. udaaharan ke lie, aap usase poochh sakate hain, "aap maze ke lie kya karana pasand karate hain?" ya "aapaka din kaisa tha?" yah dikhaane mein madad karega ki aap ek achchhe shrota hain aur aap is prakriya mein usake baare mein adhik jaan sakate hain.

6.

sakaaraatmak soch. jab aap usase baat karate hain to aap apane baare mein nakaaraatmak soch mein phans jaate hain ya kya galat ho sakata hai. sakaaraatmak sochen aur sakaaraatmak cheejen aapake paas aane kee sambhaavana hai. girl  bhee sambhavatah is sakaaraatmakata ko aapase mahasoos karegee aur aapakee bhaavana aur vyaktitv ka aanand legee. adhikaansh log aise logon ke saath ghoomana pasand nahin karate hain jo nakaaraatmak hain, isalie unake bolane se pahale sakaaraatmakata ka abhyaas karen.

7.

baat karane ka sabase achchha samay khojen. aksar baar, dopahar ke bhojan kee avadhi baatacheet ke lie ek achchha samay pradaan kar sakatee hai kyonki yah aapake school  ke din ke dauraan khaalee samay aavantit kiya jaata hai. haalaanki, aise samay bhee hain jo achchhee tarah se kaam karate hain. udaaharan ke lie, school  ke din kee shuruaat mein, kuchh samay hota hai, jisase aap usase baat kar sakate hain. kaksha ke baad ek aur mahaan samay hai.

• jab vah doston ke ek bade samooh ke aasapaas ho tab usase baat karana jokhim bhara ho sakata hai jab tak ki aap unamen se kuchh ke saath dost na hon. jab vah akele ya keval ek ya do doston ke saath baat karane kee koshish kare.

Part-3

girl  ke saath baatacheet karana

1.

usake din ke baare mein usase poochho. aapake dvaara saphalataapoorvak usake saath chhotee-chhotee baaten karana shuroo karane ke baad, ab aap vaastavik baatacheet kar sakate hain. usase poochhen ki usaka din kaisa dikHigh de raha hai ki aap usake jeevan mein ruchi rakhate hain. jyaadaatar log khud ke baare mein baat karane ka aanand lete hain, isalie vah sambhaavana ka svaagat karenge aur aapake dvaara poochhe gae chaapaloosee ka svaagat karenge.

• aap usase sampark kar sakate hain aur kuchh aisa kah sakate hain, "are, aapaka din ab tak kaisa chal raha hai?"

2.

use hansao. ek puraanee kahaavat hai ki "kisee mahila ke dil mein apanee hansee udaane ka tareeka hai". yadi aap use nahin jaanate hain, to usakee hansee banaana mushkil ho sakata hai kyonki aap usakee samajhadaaree ke baare mein nahin jaanate hain. haalaanki, aap apane school  ke baare mein chhotee-chhotee majedaar cheejen chunane par kaam kar sakate hain.

• udaaharan ke lie, ho sakata hai ki aapaka shikshak kuchh aisa kare jo aapako "apraasangik" shabd ka upayog karane ke lie mazedaar lage. aap kuchh mazedaar kah sakate hain jaise "mujhe lagata hai ki yah bahut hee haasyaaspad hai ki hamaare paas ek angrejee shikshak kaise hai jo shabdon ka upayog nahin karata hai!"

3.

usake baare mein aur adhik jaanakaaree praapt karen. kuchh samay len jab aap ek vyakti ke roop mein usake baare mein adhik jaanane ke lie usase baat karen. yadi aap usaka naam nahin jaanate hain, to vahaan se shuroo karen. yadi aapako pata nahin hai ki vah kis varsh kee hai, to usase poochhen ki kya vah usee varsh hai jaisee aap hain. vah dheere-dheere khulane lagegee aur aap aur adhik vyaktigat questions  poochhana shuroo kar sakate hain jaise "aap mastee ke lie kya karana pasand karate hain?" ya "aapakee pasandeeda movie kya hai?"

• apane baare mein bhee, kuchh ke baare mein baat karen, lekin ise zyaada na karen. aap vaartaalaap par haavee nahin hona chaahate hain. aap kuchh is tarah kah sakate hain, "main 7^th class  mein hoon," ya "main college mein daakhil ho gaya hoon aur main vaastav mein isake baare mein utsaahit hoon."

4.

usakee ek chhotee see taareeph karen. usake saath kuchh taalamel sthaapit karane ke baad, aap use ek chhotee see taareeph de sakate hain. un taareephon ko na den jo bhautik hain ya jo abhee tak vistrt hain. usake baad vah aapase door ho sakatee hai aur asahaj ho sakatee hai.

• aap kuchh aisa kah sakate hain jaise "aap soccer  mein bahut achchhe hain" ya "mainne dekha ki aap apane dost ke lie us dhamakaane ke lie taiyaar hain." aap bahut achchhe dost hain, aisa lagata hai. ”

5.

use apane saath baithane ke lie aamantrit karen. yadi aapane usake saath kaee baar baat kee hai, to aap use apane saath baithane ke lie kah sakate hain. udaaharan ke lie, aap use apane saath dopahar ke bhojan par baithane ke lie aamantrit kar sakate hain taaki aap kuchh aur baat kar saken. agar vah abhee bhee apane doston ke saath baithana chaahatee hai, to use dhakka nahin lagega. aap adhik vaartaalaap karane ke baad, baad mein ek baar phir se usase poochhane ka prayaas kar sakate hain.

• vah aapake saath baithane ke lie bhayabheet ho sakata hai yadi aap apane bahut se doston ke saath baithate hain, to use bataen ki aap do ko akele baith sakate hain yadi vah pasand karata hai.

6.

usaka number maango. usake pahale vaastavik vaartaalaap ke baad use rokana nahin hai. aap usake baad bhee usase baat karana jaaree rakh sakate hain, tab bhee jab aap school  mein nahin hain. usase usaka phone number maangen aur dekhen ki kya vah kabhee-kabhee aapako call ya telks  karane ke saath theek hai.

• usase kuchh is tarah poochhen “mujhe aapase baat karake bahut maza aaya. kya mujhe aapaka number mil sakata hai isalie main aapako call ya text kar sakata hoon? "
• vah aapako apanee soshal meediya kee jaanakaaree dena pasand kar sakatee hai. aap usase us tarah se bhee baat kar sakate hain.
• usake maata-pita sakht ho sakate hain aur use ladakon se baat karane kee anumati nahin de sakate. yadi haan, to sammaanajanak banen. aap abhee bhee school  mein usase baat kar sakate hain.